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TC Teens' Bullying Twitter Feeds

September 17, 2012
TC Teens' Bullying Twitter Feeds
TC Central Social Worker Diane Burden

"Worthless." "Disgusted." "Hurt." "Harassed." 

Those are the words four Traverse City Area Public Schools students used to describe how they felt after recent experiences with cyber bullies – individuals who use Internet or social media accounts to attack others.

Over the summer, two local Twitter feeds – @TCRumors and @TCGossipHurts – began posting defamatory comments about area high school students, particularly students of Traverse City West Senior High School. Posts mocked students by name for their appearance, made lewd comments about their dating partners and sexual behavior, and directed obscenities at users who tried to contact or challenge the anonymous feed administrators.

One victim of @TCGossipHurts, Caitlyn Keener*, was so upset by the attacks that she called the Traverse City Police Department to report the posts. "They said that kids had a choice whether or not to look at [the posts], so there was nothing they could do about it," Caitlyn says. "I realized that most adults don't take this kind of thing seriously. They look at it as something you can ignore, when in reality it is in your face."

Todd Neibauer, director of technology at TCAPS, acknowledges incidents of cyber-bullying are difficult to moderate. “Because of the nature of these accounts, we can't control them. If an account is anonymous, it usually takes a court order to find out who is behind it.” But, he adds, the schools can (and do) conduct investigations based on the content posted in the accounts, and discipline students who are found to be involved.

Cyber-bullying is becoming an increasingly prevalent issue in local schools. According to Third Level Crisis Intervention Center, the number of surveyed Grand Traverse County high school youth who reported reading email or website messages containing threats to other students increased from 21 percent in 2008 to 23.2 percent in 2010. In 2008, 34.8 percent of surveyed youth said they read email or website messages spreading rumors about other students; that number jumped to 40.1 percent in 2010.

“Cyber-bullying is extremely damaging to students,” says Traverse City Central High School social worker Diane Burden. “It may not be something physical, like punches thrown in the hallway, but students can annihilate someone's reputation in a matter of seconds.”

Complicating matters for the district is TCAPS' One2World program, which provides netbook computers to every attending high school student. The laptops provide students with enhanced online learning opportunities but, as with any tool, Neinbauer says, “they can be used for good, or they can be used for bad.”

To help cut down on incidents of cyber-bullying, the schools require students to sign agreements to only use the computers for “appropriate” purposes, and block access to Facebook on campus. Twitter, however, is still accessible. Students who violate the agreement can lose their server privileges.

TCAPS executive director of human resources Chris Davis adds that while the schools have effective programs in place to address and discipline bullying – cyber and otherwise – if harassment is repetitive, aggressive or illegal, schools will involve local law enforcement as necessary.

Meanwhile, at Traverse City Central High School, Burden is helping oversee a program designed to stop bullying in its early stages. “Be the Solution” provides an anonymous hotline (231-714-4410) to which students can text in reports of bullying, including online or cyber-bullying. The texts are converted into emails sent to Burden, who can respond back by text. Since the program launched in May, Burden has handled approximately 20 cases through the hotline, the majority of which she says were related to cyber-bullying.

“It's important for the students to know they have an avenue to get help,” Burden says. “It's also important for aggressors to know they can be reported, and that we're watching. We take this issue very seriously.”

*Not her real name
 

Most Recent Comments

 
Joe on September 18, 2012 7:46pm

To Molly,

My daughter has been bullied in person. She was able to step up and say enough. You do not have that luxury and I am sorry for that. Another person hit the problem on the head. It isn't the kids, it goes back to the parents who are bullys too. The Mom protected her child that was bullying to the other parent. Kids learn from adults, if their houshold is a house of liers, bullies, and cheats the kids will grow up to be the same. The parents need to be held accountable right along with the child. Let them explain in front of a judge why their child is bullying others.

John on September 18, 2012 6:40am

To that principal who said "do you really want to ruin the high school career of that boy/" I say YES, absolutely! If it teaches him that his behavior HAS consequences ( and that DADDY can't "take care of it") then he SHOULD have his high school "career" ruined!

Barb Ritchie on September 18, 2012 12:26am

Cyber bullying is the same as mental abuse. Mental abuse affects you your entire life, it sticks with you and makes you always doubt your self worth. No child should ever have to carry that their whole life. Molly I am so sorry that happened to you and all of the others out there. I know for a fact that it hurts.

David H. Goldsmith on September 17, 2012 10:33pm

I feel parents need to set an example that using the internet is not as meaningfull as face to face communication, and monitor their childs involvement on the internet. Involvement in sports or other activities are a good diversions.

Molly Davis on September 17, 2012 9:53pm

I go to TC West, and I was a victim of TC Gossip's hurtful words. A close friend of mine as well and it's horrible to be in that position. You think it's not a big deal until it happens to you. I know many people who were very upset, hurt and even depressed because of the things TC Gossip has said. Officials need to take these issues seriously, because these kinds of things hurt kids emotionally. Bullies of any kind should have to pay for what they did and not just slide by, without being noticed. They need to know that they're actions are wrong, and we need to make an example out of them.

Nancy Griesinger on September 17, 2012 5:45pm

I agree with Linnea. Why do we put up with this? It isn't only children who get bullied online, and as an adult who has been "cyber-bullied" I can tell you it is not easy to ignore them, but that is the only way they will leave you alone. They are cowards and they crave an audience. Ignore the emails, and report the threats to the police and FBI.

Linnea on September 17, 2012 4:00pm

Bullying has been a problem for my daughter for 5yrs. She is now attending school on-line. Nothing could be done. The only thing that helped while she was in school was the involvement of the liaison officer at West Middle School when she was in 7th grade. The liaison officers are no longer in the schools. At least one mother is as mean as her daughter, if I am to judge by her behavior on the phone when I called to complain about what her daughter had posted on Facebook. It is time for bad behavior to stop. It is not condoned at work, so why should it be present in the schools?

carol on September 17, 2012 1:11pm

I’m surprise how seriously out of the loop some people are. This is NOT a case name calling. It is a very serious situation that is affecting teenagers at a time when they are very vulnerable. And since every child is connected to some form of mass media, the spread of it is instant. We cannot fix it by taking away the mass media; it is now how this world works. I do not agree with the schools providing individual computers to each student. Parents, schools, communities and students have to get involved. TCAPs, if their reluctance is true, has to change help solve this issue!

Matt on September 17, 2012 1:09pm

Wow, Don, that's a remarkably insensitive position. Just because you got your head stuck in a toilet back in the day doesn't mean kids today should put up with cyberbullying. There might be two legal remedies here -- find a prosecuting attorney who's willing to call this what it is, aggravated stalking -- there's already a law on the books against that. Failing that -- just in case, say, Don works for the prosecutor -- find a "Call Lee free" style lawyer who would take a flier on a civil suit alleging harrassement by the person making the tweets.

Growing Sound on September 17, 2012 12:42pm

We're working on a "Musical Solution to Bullying." We want to teach young children Pro-Social behavior to stop bullying before it even starts! Check out our project here: http://www.indiegogo.com/growingsoundcdproject

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